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One night, I decided to reach out to the woman he was cheating on me with.

After she confirmed my suspicions, I decided to confront him about it. Of course, he denied it. Then he climbed into bed with me, said that I was stupid for reaching out to her, and went to sleep.

What do you think happened next?

I quietly cried myself to sleep as I lay beside him. My ex came home the following day with flowers and said she was lying. He also said that he was hurt because I didn't trust him. He was trying to make me feel guilty. It worked. He said the right things, and while some would pick up and leave, I chose to stay and fight for our relationship.

But why? Why would I want to stay with someone who would hurt and disrespect me?

Sound familiar?

Initially, your partner made you feel like the center of their universe. You felt so special because this person chose YOU. The emotional and physical connection was intense. By the time their evil traits emerge, you've devoted all your time and energy to your relationship and your partner's needs. You completely lost yourself in the process. At this point, repairing the relationship appears to be much easier than ending it.

To an outsider, it appears to be a simple decision. Who would want to be in a relationship with someone egotistical, exploits others, and lacks compassion? Every situation is unique, and there is no easy answer to this question; however, there are some common themes for those who struggle with leaving a toxic relationship:

For example, You were hoping for a change. You believed that if you stayed, things would "return to normal."

You've become dependent on the relationship.
Remember that a relationship with a narcissist often results in trauma bonding, which means you become emotionally dependent on the narcissist. This can become a form of addiction in which you crave the relationship's highs (when the narcissist is affectionate) and crash during the lows.

You've also likely been isolated from family and friends, leaving you with nothing but your relationship. This makes figuring out how to leave a narcissist even more difficult because you'll be alone if you end the relationship.

You may have even lied to yourself about the reality of your situation. It's hard to accept that the person you love doesn't love you back. "Even though he curses at me and throws things, I know he loves me deep down." "Even though he cheats, he always comes back to me.

A relationship with a narcissist may last forever if you believe you can fix them or if you just do a better job of loving them, everything will be fine. Unfortunately, this is not the case.

There is nothing you can do to fix a narcissist. No amount of love or devotion will stop their abusive behavior until they decide to heal from whatever has caused them to harm those who love them the most.

I know this because, in 2008, a forensic psychologist confirmed that my child's father exhibited characteristics similar to those associated with NPD. The psychologist also advised him to consult with a psychiatrist for further evaluation. He, of course, declined. Why? Because people suffering from NPD never admit to having a problem. With this in mind, consider the following:

1. The ways you've tried to make things work.

2. Did you achieve your desired result?

3. The changes you would like to make this time.

4. The obstacles standing in your way.

Hello, I'm Jenny, and as a survivor, I know what it's like to be in a relationship or in love with a narcissist. As previously stated, the term "narcissist" was introduced to me in 2008. Unfortunately, the term "narcissist" was not as widely used back then as it is now. I was unaware of the red flags because I lacked knowledge, and I was trapped in a cycle of abusive relationships.

My upbringing had caused me to have low self-esteem. I didn't get the love and attention I needed from my parents, so I was subconsciously drawn to staying in a relationship where I felt the same sense of desperation. These dynamics may be unpleasant, but they are well-known. You feel compelled to recreate them because they are models for how relationships should function. Because the forces that draw us to narcissistic relationships are often rooted in our own internal patterns and personal histories, breaking free from a narcissist may require some self-reflection.

So now what?

Start by making yourself a priority.

Making yourself a priority allows you to have more clarity.
Remind yourself that your responses/ emotions are valid.
Listen to what your body and mind need after a crisis/ traumatic experience.
Allow yourself to cry and express whatever emotion you are feeling.

Being in a toxic relationship is challenging. To endure those disheartening moments while remaining diligent while improving your life, you need inner resilience.

Most importantly, learn about narcissism and toxic relationships. The more you know, the more empowered you will feel. Learning is essential for successfully separating from a narcissist.

Learning about narcissism enhances your recovery. Yes, you will encounter some harsh realities along the way. However, they are necessary for your long-term health.

This one ebook will create the clarity you need to achieve the above & MORE!

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"Look Before You Leap,'' will enhance your healing journey and protect you from future harm. Armed with this knowledge, you'll be better equipped to prevent this from happening again. You'll be able to identify narcissists' warning signs before they become too deeply embedded in your life.

Narcissists follow a set pattern. And once you've figured out their patterns of behavior, it's easy to predict what they're up to and what they might try next. Helping you in avoiding potential abuse.

You'll be able to:

Learn the difference between true love and abuse disguised as love.
Learn valuable tricks and tips for dealing with a toxic partner who is making your life miserable.
Identify what boundaries you need to incorporate to break the cycle of abuse and protect yourself.
Tune into your inner child, offering love and compassion, so you can open the door to healing your adult relationships and feelings.

You'll learn about codependency, find out if you're codependent and how to overcome it.

You will also learn how your childhood influences your adult life. You're going to embark on your own inner child healing journey and come out a better person on the other side of your fears.

The list of advantages is seemingly endless, but...

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